Friday, August 31, 2007

Beauty: Latest encounters (Essie, Flirt! and Nivea)

Happy Friday and it's a 3-day weekend - yay! See you next Tuesday.

Zandra has a day off today and I've suckered her into taking my killer Friday spin class, so I'll be meeting her in Union Square shortly. If we make it out alive, we'll be visiting a couple of fabric shops - can't wait to check out Purl Patchwork. I hope I remember to take pictures.

UPDATE: we ended up going to City Quilter and was happy with the selection that we didn't feel the need to go elsewhere. I bought tons of supplies for animal making!

Anyway, here are my latest beauty finds...



Essie Good to Go!, beauty.com
So you know how much of a treat it is to get your nails done... well, to save money I started doing my own. So I took a trip to Duane Reade to replenish my home supplies. I found two new colors - a nice dark purple color and a nice dark blue one. I also grabbed a bottle of Essie's Good to Go top coat ($10). A little on the pricey side, but it was so worth it. I did my nails last night, the dark vampire color (2 coats) and then topped it with one coat of this stuff. It's even better than Seche Vite Dry Fast Top Coat. I must've smashed my nails into several objects just after 5 minutes of putting it on and no marks! Went to bed shortly and no blanket marks!! This product is true to its name. Incredible.

Flirt DREAMY EYES™ Eyeshadow Palette - Party Purple
I received a sample of this not too long ago. Flirt! along with Vanessa Minnillo, created this exclusive limited edition eye-shadow palette line. I know how some of you can't stand Vanessa Minnillo (and how some of you support her - you know who you are) but I have to say that the product is pretty good. Let's start with the packaging - love it; it slides out so it won't take up to much space in your beauty bag. Colors - love the Party Purple palette. I love purple shadows, I just think it's one of the few colors that work well with most skin tones. The two center shadows add a subtle shimmer to the eyes, a nice highlighting effect. Texture - it's very light so your eyes don't feel caked on. I still have to report back on the longevity factor once the temperature cools off. I don't think it would be fair to judge it when most things generally melt off my face during the summer months. Oh and don't forget to enter to win Flirts! Hit List sweepstakes. You could win two sets of eyeshadow palettes, shiny lipgloss duos, eye pencils, mascara and blush! They just need your name and an email address.

Nivea Dry Confidence Deodorant
So after 1 month of using the new Secret formula, I've decided that it wasn't working the way it used to. I bought 3 different types of deodorant from Boots when I was in the UK. I figured I might as well try as many as I can. I've been using the Nivea one for a couple of weeks now and I love it. I usually don't like roll-ons but this one is great (at least for now). Like all Nivea products, it has a nice light fresh scent. A little sticky when you first put it on, but once it dries I'm good to go. I guess I'll cross my fingers and report back in a month. Unfortunately it's not available in the US so if I do end up liking it past the 1-month mark, I'll have to sweet talk Mrs. H to send over a quarterly care package.

Last Night's Dinner #21: Pizza Puff Duo & Lonely Peach Tatin

So since I had lots of left-over filling from Wednesday's calzone meal, I decided to tweak last night's dinner. The original plan was to only make tomato parmesan puffs, but instead I decided to make one more type using the leftover filling.



PIZZA PUFF DUO
Difficulty: Really Easy
Prep time: 20 minutes
Cooking time: 25 minutes (split into two sessions)



You'll need:
- Olive oil for drizzling
- fresh basil leaves
- 1 tomato (pick a nice one!) sliced into thin rounds, as thin as you can get them and remove seeds
- 1 cup freshly grated parmesan cheese
- Puff pastry (I used 6 store-bought puff pastry shells, I couldn't find the regular kind)
- coarse salt and pepper to taste

Preheat oven at 400F.
Thaw out the puff pastry if frozen for about 20 minutes.



Step. 1 Once soft to touch, spread out shells on a cutting board or counter.
Step 2. Sprinkle about 1/4 of the grated parmesan over the shells and gently pat it down with your hands so that the cheese sticks to the dough. Turn over the shells and repeat - make sure you get the sides too. Transfer shells to a parchment lined baking sheet.
Step 3. Bake for 10 mins or until just golden. Don't cook them all the way as the package suggests because you'll put them back in the oven once topped. Let the shells cool down.
Step 4. Make sure your tomato slices are dry (pat down with paper towel to get as much of the natural moisture off), place 2 slices on each shell and sprinkle with grated parmesan. You can also add a couple of leaves of fresh basil if you have some around.
Step 5. Cook for 10 minutes or until cheese is nice and golden.
Step 6. Drizzle with olive oil before serving, add a fresh basil leaf and grind some fresh black pepper and coarse salt.

The other kind I made used the cheese & meat filling from Wednesday night, it was really good!





LONELY PEACH TATIN





The inspiration...


I was going through the fridge looking for something to eat and this lonely peach caught my eye. I wasn't really in the mood to munch on a peach so I thought what a great opportunity to try something new. I'm currently obsessed with pies and tarts so I immediately think pie! I didn't want to go nuts and come up with a filling so I thought making a tart tatin-inspired tart would do the trick. I was also lucky enough to have one tart crust in the freezer left over from my dulce de leche tartlettes. Unfortunately it was already cooked, so I couldn't make an authentic tatin (upside down). I've seen plenty of recipes where the fruit is gently poached in a butter and sugar mixture; other recipes use a white wine based sauce. I really wanted to combine the two ideas...



I wasn't sure if I could combine the two, so I first made a sauce using equal parts of sugar and butter. I didn't want to ruin the entire batch, so I took a spoonful of it and placed it in a tiny bowl and mixed in a splash of chardonnay. Tasted good to me! So I added about 2 tbs of wine to my butter and sugar mixture. It wasn't exactly a tatin - I got a little carried away with fanning the peach slices. It was good but I think I have to make some minor adjustments before sharing the recipe! I served it with vanilla ice-cream, I guess a dallop of Crème fraîche would've been good too.

Thursday, August 30, 2007

The city that never sleeps



I'm not sure how life got to be so complicated, but when I listen to stories from yesteryear things back then just didn't seem as complicated. It's funny, as we move towards the future our collective goals as a society tend to focus on advancing technologically and scientifically but on the flip side of that coin, there's a craving to go back in time to the "good old days". A time when family dinners were nightly affairs and chivalry wasn't a slap in the face to feminism. Anyway, my point is that life has become a game of time or should I say lack of. How many of your friends actually work the official 9 to 5 hours stated in our work contracts? How many of your co-workers tinker with their blackberries (crackberries) instead of giving you their undivided attention? How many of us are enjoying ready-made meals instead of home-baked pie crusts?

I wonder if a big part of the problem is where we live? Is New York City or any other bustling city a breeding ground for too busy, too many choices and a "there's always something better" mentality? Although I love it here and can't see myself anywhere else (except maybe in Kate Winslet's cottage in Holiday), I can't help but wonder... is it nature or nurture?

Image courtesy of Visit DC

H&M's big sis

I spotted COS (Collection of Style), a more sophisticated, older sister of H&M in one of the magazines I brought back from the UK. Unfortunately it hasn't reached this side of the pond yet but I'm sure it won't be long...

Last Night's Dinner #20: Calzone & Hueguenot Torte

Main: Sweet Sausage and Broccoli Rabe Calzone
Adapted from Not Martha
Difficulty: Medium - I had some trouble with the pizza dough
Prep time: 30 minutes (with camera work)
Cook time: Meat filling 8-10 minutes / Calzones 11-12 minutes



Dessert: Hueguenot Torte
Adapted from Martha Stewart
Difficulty: Easy
Prep time: 20 minutes (while on the phone with Zandra + camera work)
Cook time: 35-45 minutes



Calzone
You can make your own pizza dough if you'd like but I just bought ready-made pizza dough from the supermarket. If you have a favorite pizza shop, I would ask if you could buy some from them. Just let them know you want to make 6 Calzones.

I've never worked with pizza dough before so I was semi surprised by its elasticity. Let's just say I won't be working at Vinno's Pizza anytime soon. The dough just didn't want to be rolled out into 9" circles. I even attempted to use my fist like the way they do it in the pizza shops but I just ended up tearing the dough. So be patient. If you roll it out a lightly floured piece of parchment paper, it sticks to it and helps it stretch out and maintain the shape. I also used flour to avoid it from sticking to the rolling pin. If you're like me, you'll get the hang of it by the 3rd one!

This isn't the prettiest thing I've ever made but it definitely was tasty. I had way too much left-over cheese filling and a bit of meat filling left. So I'll have to incorporate that with tonight's dinner!



You'll need:
Cheese mixture -
15 oz tub of whole milk Ricotta cheese
3/4 cup grated parmesan cheese
2 cups (8oz) of shredded mozzarella cheese
1 egg yolk
1 tbs of chopped fresh oregano

Meat filling -
By the way, if you don't like broccoli rabe, you can always use spinach or leave it out altogether. Zandra, I know you hate veggies, so you can make a sausage and cheese only calzone instead.

4 Italian sausages (sweet or spicy), remove from casings
3 garlic cloves, minced
1/4 tsp red pepper flakes
pinch of black pepper
1/4 tsp of salt or to taste
12 oz of broccoli rabe
1 tbs of cold water

You'll need to preheat the oven for 30 mins on 500F. Set the rack on the lowest possible position. Don't burn yourself...



Step 1. Prep by shredding/grating cheeses, mincing garlic, chopping fresh oregano, removing sausages from the casings and cutting the broccoli rabe if you don't have the pre-cut kind. You can prep this the night before or a couple of hours prior to cooking.



Step 2.
Combine all of the "cheese mixture" ingredients and set aside. Again, you can make this ahead of time just make sure you cover it up with cling wrap and store in the fridge. (Prep time for steps 1 and 2: 15 minutes)



Step 3.
Meat mixture. Heat up a skillet and add sausages (no need to add oil, there should be plenty of natural oil from the sausages). Break up into bite size pieces. Add the garlic and red pepper flakes once you see that the meat is almost cooked. Add the broccoli rabe. Don't worry if it looks like it's going to overflow. The broccoli rabe will soon wilt as it cooks. You can help speed the process by sprinkling in 1 tbs cold water. This will create steam and will help the cooking process.
Step 4. Remove from heat and place in a plate or a baking dish lined with 4 or 5 layers of paper towels - this will help remove most of the liquid from the mixture. It's important to allow this to cool off and drain as much liquid off of the mixture so that it doesn't make the dough soggy.
Step 5. In the meantime, roll out six approx 9" circles. They should be thin but not too thin that they rip. First cut the dough into 6 equal pieces and roll into balls, then roll out each one.
Step 6. It helps to roll out the dough in parchment paper. As you roll each one, stack one on top of the other with parchment paper in between each layer (the weight of each one helps keep the other one flat). Each piece should have its own piece of parchment paper.



Step 7.
Divide the cheese and meat filling by 6. Eye ball this and gauge whether or not you're putting too much or too little. Make sure to keep each piece on a piece of parchment paper. I put about 2 tbs of the cheese mixture and 2tbs of the meat mixture. Place the fillings in the center of the rolled out dough and drag one side to the other and twist edges shut. Trim the extra paper around each calzone.
Step 8. Brush the calzones with olive oil and sprinkle the tops with coarse salt.

Took me about 20 minutes to complete the rolling out and filling process.

Step 9. Cook for 12 minutes (or until nice and golden) on 500F on a baking sheet if you don't have a pizza stone. Once done, allow to cool off for 5 minutes before serving.

Hueguenot Torte
This is really an interesting dessert. I've never had anything quite like it. It has a very different texture but really really really good. I specially like the way it looks when you serve it. It just looks like a mess but a good type of mess. It just has a certain casualness to it. A great recipe for you and your kids to do together. Karen - once it cools, Miles can help you assemble the dessert. You basically attack the pan and pile pieces on top of each other and plop on whipped cream or vanilla ice cream on top. You serve it in the center and everybody just digs in with a fork!

By the way, I made the dessert before the calzones.

You'll need:
1 1/2 cup of granny smith apples, cut into 1" pieces
1 cup of pecans, chopped
1 tsp vanilla extract
4 tbs of all purpose flour
2 1/2 tsp of baking powder
pinch of salt
2 large eggs
1 1/2 cup sugar
one 17 1/4 x 11 1/2 baking pan
Non-stick spray
whipped cream or vanilla ice-cream (optional but DO IT)



Step 1:
Prep. Chop pecans, cut and core apples. Combine four, baking powder and salt - sift on a large piece of parchment paper. Spray your baking pan with non-stick spray. (Prep time: 10 minutes)
Step 2. With a hand mixer, beat eggs until pale and fluffy (~4 mins). Begin to slowly add the sugar.
Step 3: Continue mixing and slowly add the flour mixture, roll up the parchment paper in a tube/funnel and add mixture little by little so it doesn't blow all over you. Did that happen to moi?... maybe. Beat for another 30 seconds.
Step 4: Manually fold in the pecans, apples and vanilla extract.
Step 5: Pour into pan evenly. Steps 2 to 5 took another 10-15 minutes.
Step 6. Cook for approx 40-45 mins until golden. Let cool for at least 20 minutes.



Scoop out of pan and stack/layer pieces on a large plate. Serve topped with whipped cream or a scoop of vanilla bean ice-cream. Dig in!

Ouch...



Hey guys... late start today. I woke up with extreme muscle ache-age this morning. I took a new strength class yesterday morning with a guy name Mario (you can already picture the popping quads and biceps right?) and he absolutely killed me!

I'm running low on battery this morning. But I do have a glass of iced-coffee in my left-hand and the caffeine jolt should hit in a couple of minutes and I should be revved up shortly. Today, I'll be sharing a Calzone recipe with ahem prep time info!

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Life for rent





I've had this in my mind for the past month and I finally got around to doing it yesterday. That happens so often, great ideas that are left by the sidelines.

So, last month I bought a set of greeting cards designed by Lisa Congdon with the intention of hanging them up. I adore her work but don't have much funds at the moment so I thought what a great way to own something that represents her work. At first I planned to frame each one but I never got around to finding the perfect frame... luckily a vision of a clothesline and clothespins entered my crazy brain and here we have it!


My clock has been lonely for the past 2 months. I think it was about time he got some friends. Hammered in 3 nails and tied twine to each one.


Using clothespins (I bought at the 99 cents store), I attached each card to the line. These would work great with photos too!

I used to own a home (apartment) before I got divorced. Back then I was so obsessed with having a perfect home - everything had to match. Each room in the house had to look like the cover of a Pottery Barn magazine. Then life changed. I moved into a subleased apartment in the city the size of my bedroom, I was living with someone else's furniture, someone else's plates but I couldn't be happier. It was like living someone else's life until I found mine again. Two years later, I still love that none of my furniture matches, my plates are random, my towels and beddings are mismatched... I don't feel like my stuff own me, they don't define who I am. To me, it's just stuff and I can move tomorrow and I wouldn't have to worry about lugging everything along with me. Don't get me wrong, I love everything in my apartment, I just don't feel tied down to it. I guess it's the bright side of renting. Some say it's a waste of money but right now it works and I'm happier than I've ever been. Oh and I found my life again.

This post reminded me of one of Dido's songs:

Life for rent
by Dido
I haven't really ever found a place that I call home
I never stick around quite long enough to make it
I apologize that once again I'm not in love
But it's not as if I mind
that your heart ain't exactly breaking
It's just a thought, only a thought

But if my life is for rent and I don't learn to buy
Well I deserve nothing more than I get
Cos nothing I have is truly mine

I've always thought
that I would love to live by the sea
To travel the world alone
and live my life more simply
I have no idea what's happened to that dream
Cos there's really nothing left here to stop me

It's just a thought, only a thought
But if my life is for rent and I don't learn to buy
Well I deserve nothing more than I get
Cos nothing I have is truly mine

While my heart is a shield and I won't let it down
While I am so afraid to fail so I won't even try
Well how can I say I'm alive
If my life is for rent...

Last Night's Dinner #19: Tapas Night

Tapas Night
:: Chorizo braised in hard cider
:: Tortilla (Spanish Potato Omelette)
:: Shrimp in Garlic Olive Oil
:: White Sangria





This dinner was one of the best meals that I've ever made and it was fairly easy - so I urge you to give it a shot. Try it as a Saturday night special if you don't have time during the week. I'm also including little tips I learned along the way at the very bottom. Enjoy!

Each recipe serves 2:
one guy and one girl, or three girls possibly 4 if they eat like birds



Chorizo braised in hard cider


You'll need:
- Chorizo (5oz, I used 3/4 of what I bought), cut into 1/4" diagonal slices
- 1/2 cup of hard cider (you can also use a combo of beer and apple juice if you can't find hard cider)
- 1/4 cup of chicken broth
- 2 tbs parsley, finely chopped
- 1 bay leaf
- 1 tbs olive oil
- 1/2 tsp smoked paprika
- 1 tbs of sherry vinegar (optional)

Step 1. Cut chorizo diagonally into 1/4" pieces and set aside.
Step 2. Heat up olive oil and cook onions for 3-4 minutes then add paprika and cook for another minute or so (image 1).
Step 3. Add hard cider and allow to simmer for a minute then add the broth. Lower the heat and allow the liquid to reduce by a third.
Step 4. Once the mixture is reduced, add the chorizo and simmer. You'll notice that the liquid will slowly evaporate and the natural oil from the chorizo will begin the browning process (image 5). I prefer my chorizo slightly well done (edges a little burnt). You'll know when it's done.
Step 5. Pour the sherry vinegar over the chorizo (optional) and add the parsley right before you turn off the heat.

Tortilla


You'll need:
- 4 large eggs
- 4 potatoes (I'm not sure what variety I used, it had light/thin skin - not Idaho, might've been Russett), sliced as thin as you can by hand
- 1/2 Spanish yellow onion, finely chopped
- 2 tbs olive oil
- salt to taste



Step 1. Crack eggs into a bowl and whisk lightly; don't over mix. Set aside.
Step 2. Peel and cut potatoes into very thin rounds (image 1). Season well with salt. Finely mince the onion.
Step 3. Heat up a little more than 1/2 tbs of olive oil in a large skillet (preferably non-stick). Add potatoes. You have to be careful not to add to much olive oil or you'll end up with fries. You want the potatoes to cook and not brown. You don't want them to be crispy so make sure you adjust the heat accordingly and keep mixing/turning so they don't brown and crisp up. The salt that you added should've created some moisture; the salt draws out the starch from the potatoes - you'll notice that the potatoes will get a little sticky.
Step 4. Once you notice the potatoes breaking naturally as you mix and turn (image 6), add the onions. At this point, you should also add the remaining olive oil little by little. The mixture should remain moist, so if you feel that you need more oil go ahead and up the amount. Again, just make sure they don't end up as homefries. No browning!!
Step 5. Once the potatoes and onions are soft, remove from heat and slowly add to the eggs. Step 6. Using a fork, partially mash up the potatoes (image 7) and allow to sit for 5-10 minutes so that the potatoes absorb some of the egg.
Step 7. In a smaller skillet (preferably non-stick) than the one you used to cook that potatoes - add a small amount of olive oil (1 tsp). Go grab a plate that's bigger than the skillet and put it within hand's reach.
Step 8. Pour the mixture into the pan and quickly stir for 30 seconds then leave it alone. In about 2-3 mins or when you feel like you'll be able to safely turn the omelette, take the plate and place it on top of the skillet then flip it upside down. The side that was just cooking should be visible. Now carefully slide it back into the pan, so that the other side can cook. You do this flipping thing 4 to 5 times. Be careful because it gets heavier and heavier with each flip! Make sure your flame is low so that the outside doesn't burn or brown too much - especially by flip #3.

Shrimp in Garlic Olive Oil


You'll need:
- dozen thawed uncooked shrimps with tails (I used frozen ones)
- two cloves of garlic finely chopped
- 4 tbs olive oil
- pinch of smoked paprika
- pinch of red pepper flakes (peperoncino)
- salt to taste

Don't heat up the pan before adding the oil this time, because you don't want the garlic to cook too quickly.

Step 1. Low heat, add the olive oil and garlic at the same time and heat up for about 3-4 mins.
Step 2. Add the shrimp and quickly follow up with the red pepper flakes, paprika and salt. Cook until it turns just about pink. Try not to overcook the shrimps and make sure that the garlic does not brown. Remove the pan from the heat every now and then to control the temperature.
Step 3. Remove from heat and plate shrimps with the olive oil and garlic. Finish with a splash of olive oil.

Oh and don't forget to serve warm crusty bread for sopping up garlic oil!!

Sangria


So as promised (if it turned out good)... it did!!!

**Make this one day before you plan to serve it. I know it's a pain in the butt it really makes a big huge difference!! It's worth the wait and effort.

- 1/2 gala or fuji apple, cut into cubes
- 1/2 riped mango, cut into cubes
- 1/2 riped peach, cut into slices
- 1 orange (half of it cut into bite-size 1/4 segments; other half will be juiced)
- 1 lemon (half of it cut into bite-size 1/4 segments; other half will be juiced)
- 1 tsp each of orange and lemon zest (zest the halves that will be used for juicing purposes)
- 1 bottle of dry white wine (I used Chardonnay - get a decent bottle, as much as I like Trader Joe's 2-buck chuck, spend the extra $4-5)
- 16 oz apple juice (I used Tropicana)
- 3/4 cup simple syrup (2:1 sugar/water ratio)
- splash of Cointreau* or another type of orange-based liquor (grand marnier* is also good)

Step 1. Pour wine into a pitcher and add zest of orange and lemon.
Step 2. Squeeze in the juice of half a lemon and half an orange.
Step 3. Add cut fruit, splash of Cointreau, 3/4 of the apple juice (save 1/4 to add right before you serve it), simple syrup. (You can add more or less, it really depends on your taste. I prefer my sangria sweet)
Step 4. Let nature do its business and leave it alone.
Step 5. Next day, mix it up and taste. See if you need/want to add the remaining apple juice. You can add more or less, again depends on your preference.

TIPS:
Sangria
- Put the glasses that you'll be using in the freezer for a couple of hours. You'll speed up the process if you add some water and ice cubes. It's a nice touch.
- If you really want to go the extra mile, pour some of the mixture into an ice-cube tray. This way, you don't water it down! I didn't go the extra mile and it was still good w/ water ice-cubes.
- Most corner liquor stores will have tiny bottles of liquor, so you don't have to buy a big bottle.
Shrimps
- Make sure that the shrimps are as dry as you can get them (use a paper towel to suck up as much water as possible) prior to cooking so that the olive oil doesn't become watered down.
Chorizo
- You can do steps 1 - 3 anytime and save the mixture until you're ready to cook the chorizo. Knowing that I would be too tired to cook after a 7pm spin class, I did steps 1-3 in the afternoon so all I had to do when I got home was add the chorizo and wait for it to brown. I also prepared the tortilla in the afternoon and just heated it up covered in foil in the toaster oven.

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

How happy are you?

I'm not sure why I DVR Oprah since I never watch the show but I had a lot of time on my hands yesterday and I decided to watch the "Uncovering the Secret to Happiness" episode.

One of the guests said something that I really connected with -
"being successful in life is not what really matters. Being significant in life is really the core root of what matters".



This statement reminded me of a conversation I had with my brother Tom. When I quit American Express and was deciding whether or not to take the Conde Nast position - Tom called and wanted to have a little chat. He said that he was a little concerned. He wanted to know what my goal in life was. My goal in life? Hmmm, I never really sat down and thought about my goal in life. So I asked him What's your goal in life? Supposedly his goal is to help prospective Filipino professional basketball players get into the NBA. I thought about it for a couple of minutes and realized that my ultimate goal in life had nothing to do with corporate America. I have no desire to be an SVP or a CEO. My dream job is to raise my (future) children, I can totally see myself baking cookies, finger-painting, taking them to the park and just making an impact on their little lives. I love the idea of a home-cooked meal and the whole family around the table. I'm aware that it's a dying ritual but I will try my hardest to keep it up in my home.

I have to admit that I'm a sucker for self-help guides. I appreciate little quizzes like this because I think some of us need a little push now and then. Questions like these can help jump-start a bigger assessment of one's life and can lead to life-changing steps. Life is an ongoing process and for me, there's always room for a little change ;-)

So here's the quiz. Rate each statement from 1 (strongly disagree) to 7 (strongly agree) and add up your score.

  1. In most ways, my life is close to ideal.
  2. The conditions of my life are excellent.
  3. I am satisfied with my life.
  4. So far I have gotten the important things I want in life.
  5. If I could live my life over, I would change almost nothing.
(taken from oprah.com) If you scored 15 or under, you are dissatisfied with your life. If you scored 31 or higher, you are extremely satisfied with your life. If you scored somewhere in the middle, happiness expert Dr. Robert Holden has some advice on how to live a more satisfying life. Dr. Holden says the key to being happy is overcoming "destination addiction," which he defines as "living in the not-now." "It's always about tomorrow, so you're chasing 'more,' 'next' and 'there,'" he says. "You promise yourself that when you get there, you'll be happy. And I promise you, you won't, because you'll always set another destination to go for." Instead, Dr. Holden says if you are unhappy with your life or looking to improve your score, there are two things you can do. "We have to learn to let go of our past, we have to give up all hopes for a perfect past. Let the past go, it's gone." After that, he says, "Take a vow of kindness. Be kinder to yourself and to others. "It's never too late to be happy," he says.

Quiz courtesy of oprah.com
Image from HBO

Last Night's Dinner #18: Black Fig and Chilli Tagliatelli


Black Fig and Chilli Tagliatelli
Adapted from Saturday Kitchen
Difficulty: Easy

Try this, it was surprisingly really really good!



You'll need
(serves 2):
3/4 of a package of tagliatelli pasta
6 over-ripe black figs
2-3 tbsp extra virgin olive oil
1 clove garlic, finely sliced
pinch dried chilli (crushed red pepper flakes)
3/4 cup heavy cream
sea salt and freshly ground black
½ lemon, juice only
½ bunch basil torn



- Boil water for pasta and cook according to package instructions
- Meanwhile, remove the stems from the figs and chop into quarters and then into eighths.
- Gently heat the oil in a pan, then add the garlic and lightly fry until sticky and just golden.
- Add a pinch of dried chilli and the chopped figs. Gently fry for about one to two minutes.
- Add the cream and lower the heat, bringing the sauce to a simmer.
- Season with salt, pepper and a squeeze of lemon.
- Add basil and stir to combine.
- Drain the pasta and add to the sauce, tossing to combine and coat the pasta.
- Garnish with a few more basil leaves and shavings of parmesan cheese.

Monday, August 27, 2007

Writing for the Web



Amanda
(thanks again!) just sent me this awesome link to 10 Tips on Writing the Living Web.

1. Write for a reason
2. Write often
3. Write tight
4. Make good friends
5. Find good enemies
6. Let the story unfold
7. Stand up, speak out
8. Be sexy
9. Use your archives
10. Relax!


I've been writing this blog for almost three months now and I don't feel as though I've found my true voice yet. It's a daily struggle to come up with read and/or write-worthy posts. I'm even starting to get writer's block. But what I always try and remember is that I have to continue enjoying it for myself. Whenever I get bummed about my readership, I just remind myself that I'm not doing this for money, so who cares if I have 4, 40 or 4000 unique visitors?! Lifeflix is simply an outlet for me to share what I'm learning on this trip we call life. If people find it interesting enough to check out on a daily basis then I'm super happy, if not - that's ok too.

What matters most is that it remains something that I look forward to each and everyday (well... except the weekends of course - even the unemployed need their breaks!)

White Sangria (take two)



I had the best White Sangria two weeks ago at Sala. I don't usually go for white wine but this stuff was really good. As usual, I attempted to recreate it this weekend - but was not 100% satisfied with the end result. So I'm giving it another shot.


This time I'm using a different bottle of wine and I'll also be adding a little bit of apple juice.


Like last time, I added a little bit of lemon and orange zest for an extra citrus flavor.

I'm going to let it sit overnight (in time for tomorrow's TAPAS menu) and see if there's an improvement. If there is, I will of course share the recipe!

** UPDATE: this was a winner, see recipe.

Prepping for the week



I really need to get one of those metal carts with wheels that you see cute little old ladies wheeling around. I did the groceries this morning; after 3 separate stops and the final climb up to our fifth floor walk-up, my arms and hands both felt like they were going to fall off.

It's so annoying when a grocery store doesn't have 2 out of the 50 items on your list. So after 1 heavy bag of white wine bottles from the TJ Wine Shop which by the way, is the best place on earth to get decent wine and 1 very heavy Trader Joe's bag - I still had to stop by gross Key Food to pick up Ricotta cheese and pastry puff dough.

So two hours later, I'm finally home and happily listening to music, set on shuffle mode. Every now and then I get a nice surprise, like "I'm a slave for you" - a Britney classic pre-WT.

I have all of the ingredients I need for this week's dinners (minus the Chorizo for TAPAS night, I can't seem to find it). I usually spend an hour on Sundays planning the week's menu because it's one less thing I need to think about during the week. I come across recipes throughout the week and save them in my recipes-bookmarks. So all I need to do is go through my bookmarks and I can quickly come up with a plan for the week. I use a sticky note widget in iGoogle to remember what I planned for the week.

I also check to see what ingredients I have from last week that I should use up. For instance, I still have leftover sweet italian sausages that I froze, so I made it a point to look for a recipe that could use some. I'll be making calzones this week, with Broccoli Rabe and sausages... yum!

Coke Orange



I forgot to post this when I got back from my trip. I spotted an orange Coke bottle at Tesco's and had to buy and try. Tesco is sort of like Walmart and Target , a one stop shop type of place with tons of private label goods mixed in with better known brands. Tesco's supposedly coming to America with a mystery "format" that will apparently shake up the traditional food retail market. Interesting.

As you would've guessed, it tastes just like Coke with a little bit of orange soda mixed in. You can simply add a little Sunkist soda or any other orange-flavored soda to Coke and voilà! Or forgo the whole orange soda thing and just add a splash of orange infused Cruzan or Bracardi Rum instead =)

Zum Schneider Sundays



So I crashed another Sunday at the "Church" (Zum Schneider) with the guys (Hillsy and Kayhan). I finally had the famous Pork Shank special and boy was it worth the $22! It reminds me of Filipino Lechon - roasted pork on a spit. It's my new favorite weekend meal, along with a pint of Radler.

We tried sweet talking the staff for the pork recipe but no go, I'll have to try this out on my own and hope for the best.


Pork Shank Special $22: roast pork shank in dark beer gravy w/ potato dumpling


Kayhan had the Strammer Max $7 (open sandwich w/ ham, melted Swiss cheese
& two sunny side up eggs), I guess it's the German version of a Croque Madame.


We also had the Apfelküchle (Apple Fritter)$7: Homemade apple fritters w/ vanilla sauce & vanilla ice cream - another winner.

Friday, August 24, 2007

Autumn Must Haves

Happy Friday & happy shopping... Have a nice weekend and see you on Monday!



The only reasons I can think of to look forward to the end of summer...

3.1 Phillip Lim Oversized Campus Shoulder Tote, shopjake.com
Delicious Apple Necklace, Urban Outfitters
Bumpy Rider Jacket, French Connection
Cynthia Vincent Faith - Hidden Platform Bootie, Piperlime.com
Jude Knit Sweater, French Connection
Heimstone - Officier Dress, Jumelle
Bing Bang Apple Charm, Barneys
G-Star Astor Denim Bomber, Xile Clothing